Kink-Affirming Therapy

Welcome!

If you’ve landed here, there’s a good chance you’re looking for a therapist who won’t flinch when you say “dom/sub,” “furry,” or “I like being tied up.” Good news—you’re in the right place!

     Colorado Sex Therapy offers kink-affirming online therapy for individuals, couples, and polycules all across Colorado. Whether kink is a big part of your life or something you’re just starting to explore, you deserve a therapist who gets it and doesn't need to be educated—and who doesn’t make it weird.

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What Is Kink-Affirming Therapy?

Kink-affirming therapy is exactly what it sounds like: therapy that supports, celebrates, and respects your kinky side—without judgment, shame, or side-eye.

Whether you're into BDSM, power exchange, roleplay, fetishes, or things you don't even have names for yet, this is a space where you're safe to be real. No need to translate, downplay, or sugarcoat your desires. I'm already fluent in the language of kink (and a lifelong learner full of curiosity and care).

This work is all about you—your pleasure, your safety, your relationships, and your emotional well-being.  You might wonder what IS NOT kink-affirming therapy: one clear example I can give is that while you can talk openly about sex and kink/BDSM, it wouldn't be appropriate for a client to act out a kink/fantasy or involve me, the therapist. 

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I Talk With Clients About Things Like:

• “How do I communicate my kink needs without freaking out my partner?”

• “Can kink and trauma healing go hand in hand?”

• “Help—we opened up our relationship and now things feel messy.”

• “I love my kink life, but sometimes I feel shame. Is that normal?”

• “I’m exploring ABDL/pet play/fetish stuff and not sure how it fits into the rest of my identity.”

• “We need help navigating power dynamics and building trust.”

No question is too strange, too embarrassing, or too niche. Seriously.

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Common Kinks Supported:

We’ve worked with folks into all kinds of dynamics and interests, including (but not limited to):

• BDSM – ropes, impact play, D/s dynamics, scenes, and more

• Fetishes – foot, latex, gear, object fetishes, and other specific turn-ons

• Consensual non-monogamy – hotwife, cuckolding, swinging, open relationships

• Age play & ABDL – caregiver/little, regression, diaper play

• Furry & pet play – anthropomorphic identity, roleplay, and community connection

• Voyeurism & exhibitionism – exploring turn-ons and navigating consent

• Orgasm control, chastity, edging – yes, we can talk about that too

If it’s consensual, ethical, and meaningful to you, it’s welcome here.

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Why Online Therapy?

I work with clients across Colorado, and everything we do is online—so you can show up exactly as you are, in the comfort of your own space (yes, even in a tail, collar, or onesie if that’s your vibe). We bring warmth, humor, and a zero-judgment approach to every session.

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Let’s Normalize What Turns You On

Sexuality is diverse. Desire is human. And therapy should be a place where you feel seen, not shamed. If you’re ready to dig deeper, communicate better, explore safely, or simply have a therapist who doesn’t blink when you say “chastity cage”—let’s talk.

                                ​👉 Book a free 15-minute consultation and see if we’re a good fit.